When travelling, one develops a different rhythm of life, time slows down. This experience helps you to take time for yourself!
Until I was 50, I ran after time. When I look back today at what I used to put into my days as a mother of a large family, company director or employee, I wonder how I was able to keep up this pace for so long. But I’ve been away for a long time and time hasn’t been the same. Little by little, I made peace with the clock of my life. But first I had to cross a zone of intense resistance and overcome the obstacles.
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In modern societies, “no time” is such a common answer that one wonders what a normal life is made of
When I see the others locked up like hamsters in their wheel, I would like to tell them that this rhythm is hellish and leads them nowhere. But like me before, they answer that it’s easy to say, that they have no choice, that we count on them.
Perhaps it is time for you, who dream of change and, moreover, of thinking about a different rhythm of life
To make a cake? WTF I’m working!
At that time, I worked in a company, I was an employee, my time was timed, divided between the office and the house.
I’m a big fan of baking. Sometimes I like to eat it, but above all I like to make it. For birthdays, anniversaries, family celebrations, it was a bit like my job: to make a nice cake.
I put all my heart into it. Theme, decoration, flavour, little characters.
For my daughter’s birthday that year, I made a beautiful cake with a little blonde figurine (my daughter) sitting, surrounded by gifts, flowers made of coloured marzipan. Happy birthday my darling!
The effect was successful. However, a member of the family commented: “Me, I don’t have time to bake cakes, (eyes in the sky) seriously…”
I answer that I prepare all this in the evening or on Saturdays. That it’s not that difficult, you have to get organised a bit.
She adds: “In the evenings, I work, I send faxes, letters, I do the invoices… I have other things to do than baking cakes.” I lost the battle with a reply as stupid as it was sincere: “But it’s still nice to take the time to make a birthday cake for your children, isn’t it?”.
I liked to spend those hours making this present to my little ones. That was also what “having children” was all about. Taking time to read books to them, build castles, sew princess dresses… and make nice birthday parties.
It seemed to me at that time that it was something beautiful, making a cake for someone you love. A cake can be shared, it can be savoured, it requires a little more than know-how, it requires a little affection. It takes time.
If it’s not the cake, it’s precisely this time invested in those few multicoloured candles and whipped cream, that comes to my face.
Not having time is having value. This eagerness proves that you are an important, intelligent person. Why make a stupid cake when you can buy one? Earning money, that’s the heavy, the crucial, the primordial! It proves how much the person deserves respect and consideration. Taking the time to do something for someone is insignificant.
That’s the way it was in my life before. The world around me was like that. Luckily, that life has changed a lot.
Learning to take time for oneself is sometimes a long process, which is why it is necessary to make a long journey
When I went on my first trip, for the first few months, I kept the same busy European rhythm. I had to stay active. A train to catch, a temple to visit, a trek to do.
Even though I didn’t have a programme as such, I made the most of the time I had available to me. I longed to do something with it, something that would give me strength, motivation and happiness. I imagined that in this way I would recharge my batteries so that I could once again throw myself into a daily routine of hours, break-even points and performance.
20,000 kilometres and a few months later, time has slowed down. instead of doing something I learned to do nothing and taking time for me
Taking one’s time and not producing anything is not always easy to assume
A long journey helps to reconsider time as an opportunity, not as a threat
Using time as we wish is an act of resistance
A great trip really changes your life!
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